Lessons and The Marriage Plot

October 31, 2011, by

At Wednesday’s reading, Jeffrey Eugenides said he was genuinely surprised that he wrote a book that at all contained Jane Austen or George Eliot or the Victorians at all. Eugenides said that at Brown in the ‘80s, he was enamored with the modernists—Joyce, Proust, Faulkner—anyone or anything that was “taking apart consciousness.” But then, he said, he graduated and read Tolstoy (which exemplifies the kind of writing the modernists were reacting to) and discovered the “narrative drive and vividness of characters so compelling that they shouldn’t be left behind in the drive toward something new.” Thus, The Marriage Plot, in which deconstruction and tradition both have their place.

What Eugenides said in the post-reading interview with Alex Parsons really put the book in an articulate perspective for me. He said in writing this book he was interested in the moments in our lives when “our head and our heart are in conflict.” The head, in this case, is the sense-making deconstruction of Barthes and Derrida, the necessary acknowledgement that everything, even love, is a construct. The heart, then, is the passion Madeleine feels for Leonard, the dependence on the purity of feeling for truth. Of course, Leonard, a scientist with manic depression, is constantly negotiating head troubles and heart troubles. And Mitchell, a gifted philosopher in pursuit of religious purpose, is also grappling with head and heart, the known and the unknown.

Though many have criticized this novel for not being as epic in scope as Middlesex or as narratively risky as The Virgin Suicides, Eugenides’s comments on Wednesday gave words to why this book is still successful. In short, because it’s about—as many great novels are—the things that linger over our real selves for years and years after they take seed and ruin our graduation, or our trip across Europe, or our first love.

On Wednesday, Eugenides gave a bit of advice for first-time novelists: give yourself limitations. Don’t try to write the whole world your first time out. Sounds like excellent advice to me, but in a recent post over at
The Millions
, Eugenides articulates a slightly different lesson. He discussed why and how he sat down to write this novel, and tried to name what he learned from all of it. His lesson is the lesson I want to remember when I sit down to write mine:

But you don’t write a novel from an idea, or at least I don’t. You write a novel out of the emotional and psychological stuff that you can’t shake off, or don’t want to. For me, this had to do with memories with being young, bookish, concupiscent, and confused. Safely in my 40s, married and a father, I could look back on the terrifying ecstasy of college love, and try to re-live it, at a safe distance. It was deep winter in Chicago when all this happened. Every day I looked out my office window at snow swirling over Lake Michigan. After separating the two books, I put one in a drawer and kept the other on my desk. I ran off with The Marriage Plot and didn’t look back. I changed completely, became a different person, a different writer; I started a new life with a new love, and all without ever leaving home.

4 thoughts on “Lessons and The Marriage Plot

  1. Reading Eugenides’ quote here made me recollect on the advice from several professors on my writing as an undergraduate. I have a strong tendency to try and write about the world instead of focusing in on one particular topic. My passion is education. I cannot seem to shake that from my life. Therefore, more often than not, my papers are geared toward that topic no matter what prompt I am given. Do I want to stray away from what I am confident and comfortable doing? Naw…I do not. I think I can balance out my wants and the wishes of my professors easily if I put my mind to it.

  2. Every literary era was created in respond to the previous one. For example, Romanticism emerged as a respond to the industrialism or Modernism came out in response to the Traditional literature. It seems that each literary era puts the previous one to it’s spot; however, it shows that writers were in search of something new all the time. They invented something new instead of leaving certain things behind. Eugenides came up with new form of writing too – mixing the traditional and modern way together. I think we should look at the literary eras to get what was new in them, instead of, looking for what it left behind.

  3. The Lessons and The Marriage Plot
    In this article, Jeffery Eugenide’s explains his book as one of heads and hearts. He seems to imply that as we try to find our way, our heart’s are capable of getting in the way. He states that head and heart in conflict, are the things that could ruin graduation, a trip, or our first love. In other words, love is capable of ruining our plans. As he wrote, he explained that through the book, he found a new life and new love, without leaving his home. I gather that he did it with his mind and emotions.
    He encourages up and coming writers not to write it all in one setting. He also encourages aspiring authors to put on paper the emotional and psychological stuff you don’t want.

  4. Plotting marriage, as it will be referenced, is an idea rusted with age. Since the dawn of feminism (and that dawn can be argued from the writings of the late 1800s back to the plight of Eve herself searching for more knowledge) one has to wonder with a chuckle why it is so strange that women have a duel societal role.

    With women yearning for independence and security, the right to choose, and family, it seems inevitalbe that the world in which we live, men in particular, become perplexed. The modern woman is all things: a stay at home mom, a single mother, a nanny, a CEO, cold-hearted, and empathetic. The most significant factor it the choice for her life in itself. The enlightened Jeffery Euginide displays this struggle for balance and choice within this love triangle. The ultimate power, a choice of none, is, perhaps, the greatest show of feminism and evolvement.

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